5 Things I Tried That Completely Transformed My Sex Life (And One Isn’t Even In The Bedroom)

2. Lowering the Expectations (And Leaving the Lights On)

I used to be so stressed about “how I looked from that angle.” The moment I decided to let go, leave a dim light on, and focus on the sensation instead of the thought—everything changed. Your confidence is the most powerful aphrodisiac in the room.