7. Anticipation and Building Tension Desire doesn’t start in the bedroom; it starts with a text message at lunch or a whisper in the kitchen. Women crave the ‘build-up’—the mental stimulation that makes the physical act the natural conclusion of a day spent wanting each other.
8. Active Presence (Put the Phone Away) The greatest craving in the modern world is undivided attention. Knowing that his mind is 100% on her, and not on his work or his social media feed, makes a woman feel like the most important person in the world.
Summary: Communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. If you want to transform your intimacy, start by sharing these secrets with your partner. You might be surprised at how much closer you become.


