Let’s be honest for a second. We all go through those phases where sex feels a bit like… checking off a to-do list. We love him, he loves us, and everything works technically—but that electric spark? It’s currently napping on the sofa after a long day of work.
After months of “fine,” I decided to take matters into my own hands and try a few things I’d been reading about. Not circus-level acrobatics, but real, psychological and physical shifts that change the dynamic.